Can You Recognize the 3 Signs of a Breakup?

By: Tracy S Lane

Splitting from your lover can actually be avoided if one is aware of the signals of a breakup. Although all relationships differ from each other but the symptoms of trouble can be similar.

1) You may be getting ignored by your partner.

May be not speaking to each other is not the only point to look for. If your partner does not ask you how you are and where you are then it means that you are like two ships just passing by each other. Its now time to reevaluate your love life probably.

So stop here and contemplate why is your partner ignoring you? You probably forgot their birthday or some other special event? Are you loving your partner enough these days? Is there a possibility of they feeling neglected? These could be reactions to earlier events also. Although this may be their viewpoint, but you should be understanding enough and make them feel happy for the sake of love.

You can discuss the issue nicely at a surprise meal also that you can plan for them. The reason for their being grumpy can be taken up now, but please don't word it like that. The problem might not be related to your relationship at all and could be different. Try to talk, because at times the communication might not be ideal in a relationship. But it could result into anything.

2) Your partner does not want to go out with you and does not want to see you also.

In case your loves becomes unavailable and too busy without any reason then your alarm buttons should ring. After all there is a reason behind such behavior and you need to know that. There is no need to become a doormat or a bedmat actually! Don't make an excuse for not facing your girlfriend or boyfriend. In any case don't be ignorant of these signs or the result could be a breakup letter.

3) Your partner is staying secluded from you in the bedroom.

It may sound like only a three letter word, but sex can cause big problems. Asking a couple who has been together for long can probably tell that. At times family and other life issues can become blockages in the way of lovemaking. It's true that the animal like attraction for it does not stay for long and so not making love every night might be ok. What is not ok is if that intimacy is not there for months. It is the shared emotions that keep people together. Hence a cuddle and hug are very important.

Your partner's happiness and sadness must be known to you. Although sometimes their behavior will not be because of any of your reactions, but it's a strong indication of some trouble boiling up. Be more careful towards these signals of a breakup. Or be ready to be single again and then you have all the time to analyze the reasons for it.

Reprinted from: Communication Skills Articles.

You can discover more about this and other Immediate Reconnect Strategies to get your ex back in an e course about Get Your Ex Back Without Waiting Weeks. Tracy S Lane teaches relationship and emotional intelligence courses and you can get the free course 7 Vital Relationship Insights You Never discovered In School here at Help For Relationships.

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