How to Approach Women - Overcoming Anxiety

By: Melinda Curle

Many men fail to date women because they have too much anxiety with their approach. They start to worry about how they look, what if she rejects me, whether she will like me and often have too much anxiety to even try approaching beautiful women.

If this sounds like you, there are some key things to keep in mind about how to approach women. Once you have confidence in your approach, you will notice that you can approach more and more beautiful women without fear of rejection.

The key is to have confidence when you approach women. Believe in yourself and believe that you will be accepted for who you are. The absolute worst thing that could happen is a woman will reject you. However, once that happens, you know you can move on to the next woman. You no longer need to wonder what she thinks or doesn't think about you.

Realize that most women are a little nervous about dating as well. When a man approaches them with some interest in them, it is definitely a compliment and usually well received. While she may not be interested in you immediately, if you crack the ice with a tasteful joke or nice compliment, you just might spark some interest.

You should approach women with an air of confidence whether you have to fake it or not. Women are more attracted to confident men who are in control of their lives. Most of the time, I look for men who have good posture and hold their shoulders up. Slouching is no way to approach women. It shows that you are not comfortable in your own height.

While you may have some anxiety when you approach women, with practice that anxiety will fade. If the reason you have anxiety when you approach women, you may want to practice conversation starters with some good female friends. Get feedback about what topics are good to talk about.

When you approach women, make sure that you present your best self. Dress nicely and practice good hygiene. There is nothing that turns women off faster than bad breath or dirty clothing. Put your best food forward and make a great impression. When you know you look good, you will be more confident when you approach women. Looking great and feeling confident go hand in hand.

Reprinted from: Communication Skills Articles.

M. Curle helps men with how to approach women.

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