How to Make Him Like You

By: MariusG2009

You saw him in a coffee shop, someone made the introduction, he was clumsy and distracted, even spilled coffee on your blouse, but you liked him, although he showed no interest in you. Don't be worried - you know that any man can be influenced into liking you. You only have to show him you don't have a relationship, but don't exaggerate: any man who sees you are desperate will disappear immediately. What can you do? Here are some ideas:

1. Everything is about attitude

It is a fact that girls, who would complain, cry over "spilt milk" or show deep vulnerability, will not be appreciated. Men are attracted to strong women, independent and self-assured, who face life instead of finding a man to do this for them. So, if you want to make him like you, be careful about your image. Be relaxed and let him know you are happy with the life you have.

2. Find interesting subjects

Don't talk about soap operas or diets. Find topics of mutual interest. Who knows, maybe he has the same likes and dislikes as you. Forget about the topics that are only for girls and let him talk, too.

3. Sex on a first date

This is not a good idea and he may think you do this with every man you just met. Intimacy should come later.

4. Play "hard to get"

He must be the first to show interest in you, so don't call him 3 times a day and don't send lots of e-mails to show you miss him. If he misses you, he will call. Do not show you are available anytime; settle a date "according to your busy schedule".

There is something else you need to know. You must understand that if he refuses politely to meet you, maybe he has a relationship.

Reprinted from: Communication Skills Articles.

Marius Gherghinescu
My Dating Match
www.mydatingmatch.net/

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