Top 3 Divorce Tactics That Her Divorce Lawyer Doesn't Want You to Know About

By: Gary Goshen

Men involved in divorce are disadvantaged in US Courts. There are many causes cultural, religious, and just plain carelessness on the part of men. If you ignore this problem it can be very expensive. Here are three divorce strategies for men will help you.

1. Keep your head during the divorce. If you are involved in a divorce you may be depressed and this is normal. You set out to have a marriage that worked and now it is ending. You could be accused falsely and again betrayed.

If you feel sympathy for her - with loss of love trust no longer there - you don't know what she will do and it could cost you dearly. Say to yourself this is for the best and believe that you will achieve the outcome that you want and look to your own needs and goals. Getting down means that you won't fight for the things that are important for you.

2. Watch the money. Joint accounts of any kind are a problem, be sure to take care of them. Do this as quickly as you can. You can be certain that her attorney is telling her to get all she can now during this uncertain time. While there was once love and trust now you are vulnerable in this important area. Protect yourself in this most important area.

3. Reduce any income gap between the two of you. You must find a way to lower your income and raise hers. A good CPA can help with your income. Get a report about your soon to be Ex' skills and their value in the local work force.

If you go to court and she's a stay at home wife with no other income than you then you are on the wrong end of the automatic formulas for support and asset distribution. These reports are evidence that can help you get things into balance and compel your soon-to-be ex back into the workforce. You can likely save thousands of dollars.

Thousands upon thousands of men are paying way too much in child support and alimony and they don't even know it! These poor men are struggling to make their monthly payments while their ex or soon to be ex is using the extra money to get "beauty treatments," to buy new clothes, to make payments on the fancy new car they just bought and much more!

Don't get into this kind of divorce.

Reprinted from: Communication Skills Articles.

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