Win Your Boyfriend's Trust

By: MariusG2009

It is known that men, compared to women, are very reserved when they have to speak about their feelings. Women can talk about their inner world, hopes, dreams, wishes or anything else they want to talk about, anytime and anywhere. From this point of view, men and women are very different. A man shows his emotional side and talks about his problems only in a relaxed, easy and comfortable environment and with a trustworthy person.

If you want your lover to share his feelings and worries don't "force" him. Everything will come naturally when you win his heart, but it takes time, patience and effort. It would be difficult to make him open his "soul" to you, but you would see it was worth doing it. This way you can have the relationship you dreamed about. Here are some ideas:

1. Be sincere

If you want your boyfriend to be sincere with you, you must do the same. It is called mutual understanding and it has great effect on the relationship. Assure him that you always say the truth and he can have confidence in you. Be attentive: it is difficult to be considered a trustworthy person and it is so easy to become the opposite.

2. His turn to share ideas

When he starts doing it, do not interrupt him unless you have something important to say and it is linked to the topic. He can feel offended if he tells you about one of his friends and you say "Oh, my God, I forgot to buy groceries" he can understand you are not at all interested in what he says and so he will not bother you with his problems. Try to be in his shoes, would you like not being listened to? So, always listen to him, no matter what he has to say. This is the way to win his trust.

3. He has a feeling of being safe in your company

Be sure he has nothing to be afraid of when he is with you. Make him trust you so that he shares his feelings, ideas and opinions. If he tells you about an embarrassing moment, do not start laughing at him because he will get angry and regret the fact that he trusted you with his secrets. If he knows you will not judge him, the next step will come naturally, he will tell you more and more about his inner world.

Reprinted from: Communication Skills Articles.

Marius Gherghinescu
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